Tough Choices & Logic

Have you ever had to make a tough choice? I don’t mean what to wear on your first date. I mean like having to make a choice between two people in a fight? Or having to walk out on someone you honestly didn’t want to?

When I was in grade eight, I made a new friend. It was my first high school, and we got along well, but she had eventful family. I changed schools and we didn’t really keep in contact. We only knew each other three months, but it felt like we had been friends longer then that.

The year was coming to a close and I found out through a friend that the girl I had been friends with was pregnant. We were only thirteen. I wanted to be there for her, I wanted to help her, but I couldn’t. We hadn’t really spoken in a long time, my mum didn’t want me around people from that school.

She will never know how much I wanted to be there for her. I told mum I just wanted to help, but I didn’t know how. I saw her once about a year or so later, her baby is gorgeous. But that was a tough choice.

Another time was when I wanted to die. I was desperate to get away from this world. But I made the tough choice to stay. Life is full of tough choices.

Life is simply full of choices, every time you make a choice, its has an important effect. Don’t sweat it on the little choices, and maybe we should go with our guts more often, instead of logic. But I am just one girl, and it might not effect many people, but I don’t think we should be so focused on the logic of things.

Something my friend always tells me is that he doesn’t get my logic. Why should I have logic behind liking someone? Sometimes the heart likes who the heart likes. Sometimes my choices aren’t made on logic, but a feeling.

I don’t care if others don’t want to make choices depending on what your heart is screaming at you, but I think it would mean a lot more to you! When it comes to your life, don’t make choices depending on other peoples feelings or logic. Decide on your own terms!

Another post that is pretty much all over the place, oh well. I write these on my feelings. I hope it makes sense!

This is beautifullymessedrightup, here to help.

P.s sometimes logic is very important! 

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